Not An Excuse If You Are Female

Always hear some people (obviously girls) say this:
"Where are the guys? We are girls, we can't do that."

When female can't do a thing, especially when it relates to hectic task such as carry a box, automatically our gender will become an excuse. Just like today's post-mortem for Pesta Chun, not specifically address anyone, but the most frequent excuse for not doing job well is "We are girls." "We have no boys in our group."

It really bothering me. As a female, I do not think that when you are a female, you can't do anything that a guy can do. Not to mention feminism, but, as a committee, we should do our best but not depends on someone, especially using gender as an excuse, Indeed, guys have their advance, they have more muscle mass than girls, but do bear in mind, no women can't live without a man, women (and for human) can't live without human, and it doesn't mind that the human is guy or girl. Do not depend too much on guys, they will feel tired.

Human limits are unlimited. We are not using our full strength in daily life. See, don't say that if you are a women, you lose. If so, why still have women win in weight lifting can counter a guy? That is the power within human. Excuses makes us feel ease and restrict us from break out the limit. What we initially can do become can't when we start making excuses.

Stop using "I am a girl" as excuse to avoid hectic task and blame on guys for not giving support. They are not born to be our worker, do not think that when it comes to physical work, find a guy. They are superior in physical but that is not a reason for them to do all tiring job, just like you are clever but doesn't mean that you have to be a scientist.

Gender stereotype should be avoided when comes to work. Guy can be as gentle and neat in doing their task, and girl can be very wise in making decision. I encounter many guys who are very gentle and girls who are very cool. Just take an example, the hair stylist guy I met at Pesta Chun. He is very gentle guy ,soft in speaking and he treats our hair very gentle. Normally I hate to find a female stylist as they are rude in styling your hair - I think they treat my head as their training puppet. Guys are mostly more gentle, it is very comfortable when they very neatly comb your tangled hair. Another example, our ex-chinese representative is a girl, and she is wise in making decision, debate and so on.

The world is in transformation, and the gender border become blurrier, most of the task are shared by both gender. So, do not use gender as an excuse in escaping job. Equality.